I appreciate the answers y'all have provided, and taking in what has been said I guess my last response would be that it seems temperature plays most of the role, but restricting movement does become the primary because of temparture swings.
It's hard for me to comprehend drywall restricting movement with the forces involved but I'll take your word on it because I really don't study this type of failure.
I would think the perimeter tiles alone would be the main culprit. If I tiled the perimeter of say a 20x20 square. Then filled in the tile inside that square, heat and cooled the center of the job extremely, it would tent. Just the bond strength of the perimeter tiles themselves would be enough to restrict movement? Which is why we add the soft joints every so many feet.
It's hard for me to fathom that the joint against drywall let's say would cause a tent, vs just the perimter tiles themselves. But I honestly am flying by the seat of my pants with these statements with no information to back it up.