Welcome, Jim.
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It is very, very difficult to finish concrete in a proper slope to drain in a shower area while placing an entire SOG foundation. You will not find finishers who will do that for you. On this I will wager large dinero.
And even if you did find those finishers, you still won't have a method to waterproof your shower receptor to a proper drain, as Davy points out. And you still must have a way to waterproof your walls and the junction between waterproofed walls and floor.
I started dropping the shower area in my first SOG new home construction in 1985 and have done the same with every one since. Gives you the option to build even traditional shower receptors (the kind Davy builds) or the newer direct bonded waterproofing membrane system receptors. Also gives you a lot of good options for curbless or doorless or whatever else you want. You can bring the shower floor up to level with the bathroom floor if you want (do heed the caution about doors in that arrangement) or you can have a small step down into your shower (many of my customers like that arrangement).
If you have the option to drop the shower area, I recommend you do that. There is no downside no matter what decisions you make or change later. The charge for that option in your slab design should be minimal if there is any charge at all in a new construction slab.
See you got some new questions in there while I was typing:
1. For that kind of shower design your membrane must cover the floor and walls up to above the shower head supply pipe.
2. Yes.
3. Yes.
My opinion; worth price charged.