I have not been here for a few years since doing my last big project. Thanks again for all the great help on this site. I have done with your help couple baths surrounds, a shower (not the pan I had someone do that), and lots of floors and backsplashes. I think I do good work, but would starve if paid by the hour. I read a lot and follow a lot of videos on line. The videos out there are really getting good. They are so detailed and even show you how things can go wrong. Seems in the past there was a lot of misinformation, and now things are just much more detailed. I think my projects came out very good and more importantly built to last.
The project I am doing now is in my primary house. It is traditional builder grade 1980s construction. Second level in Virginia. I am not building my dream bathroom, but would like something nice for resale in a few years. I do not mind spending money on quality products because I understand that time is money and poor products usually mean more time and more problems. So this is my 80s master bath, very small to today's construction and there is really no way to really make it bigger.

I am not committed to any solution, but figure these are my options. Open to opinions and ideas.
1. Keep the wall as is and either replace the tub with a larger drop in or just leave it as is with a new surround. Obviously, redo the shower. Either bring the curb out to the end of the dividing wall or go curbless
2. Cut the wall down to a knee wall to open things up. I have seen this setup which is nice and open, but not with a shower that small
3. Get rid of the tub and wall and make a bigger shower and frame in glass.
Here are a few questions.
1. Last time I was here Kerdi seemed to be the rage, but it seems like othere products are now on the market as well. I am aware of the price differential. Do you still strongly recommend this. I bought the book here on the Kerdi installation and read that, and have watched many videos to try to get as much knowledge.
3. I was thinking of going with a Schluter Kerdi pan if this is possible. However, the current shower is 36 by 36 and not sure if you can even cut a pan down to that size. I see a 48X48 and a 36 X 60. Do they make a 36 by 36?
4. Would you recommend the Schluter pan? I have watched a ton of videos on doing a mud pan, but afraid the learning curve would be high and maybe the biggest chance of a mistake.
2. My wife would like to make this a curbless shower. I have watched the Kerdi videos of lowering the floor by sistering the joists cutting out sections to sit on the sistered joist. Would you recommend doing this
4. If I went curbless without any door could the pan be 36 by 60 and extend into the room. I see they make an offset drain in the 36 x 60.
5. In the Kerdi Shower Book there is not much on the Schluter pans, is there any resource you do recommend. I have not ordered yet the the Bathroom Remodel books, but probably will. It is not what you know or what you do not know, it is what you do not know you do not know. I think D. Rumsfeld had some version of that.
6. I was thinking of going with Ditra and thus could make the bathroom more waterproof. Also understand the cost difference. I do not think I need it for crack isolation the floors are pretty solid. 3/4 tongue and groove. I will get the deflection value, but that seems like one thing that was not skimped on. Any opinions on Ditra (assuming I meet the deflection requirements to support other backers)? Heck, I think the current tiles are directly on the plywood. Talking about skimpy 1980s construction. The bath surround I updated was tile directly to sheetrook without any waterproofing or vapor barrier. However it was bone dry. I am curious to see what is behind this shower.
7. My assumption if I am going to do everything else, I really should drop in a larger tub. I think that adds about another $600-700 for an OK fiberglass. The current tub is immaculate but I think the bang for the buck makes sense. Any opinions. That is really more a realtor question.
8. I heard that Schluter recommends min 2x2 tiles on the pan, but I searched here and that seems disputed. Want to double check that mosaics are fine. I also have some leftover marble 4x4s. Would these be fine? They are honed.
9. I want to likely go with a shower system and rain shower head. The space is so small with the current shower, is there a way to do a small bench or ledge? Would a corner bench be to tight? I was thinking maybe just a 4 inch ledge enough for a lady to but here foot on.
Again any suggestions or recommendations are appreciated. As long as it comes from someone besides me, my wife will listen and I will not be accused of Mansplaining.
Thanks
Pete in VA
Here are the photos of my previous projects you helped me with. Not sure why they rotated. As you can see Wife likes white and marble.