CX, Thank you for the reply! This has been an awesome remodel ride. Granted some mistakes made, all learned from.
I'm actually trying to limit a significant floor level difference between the bathroom and hallway. Maybe I wasn't clear. The polyurethane and dog hair

on top of my hardwood throughout the house is literally only 7/8" above the top of the floor joist. It is simply T&G solid hardwood toe-nailed through the tongue into the joist with nothing in between. In the bathroom I had original 1940's linoleum glued on top of that so the floor was even with the hallway minus the thickness of the linoleum.
My thought process was at the time that the new subfloor/underlayment was likely to meet or exceed 1" alone, plus 3/8" tile, plus membrane and multiple layers of thin-set. I knew a transition was inevitable but I wanted to keep it as small as possible, so I went with minimum code in my locality which was 5/8. Totally a mistake, I agree 100%.
I'll put down some 1/2 ply tomorrow. I'll get the best grade I can get my hands on.
I have a bag of 272 already (we originally planned a larger format stone on ditra hence the unmodified). I can easily get some Laticrete 333 for it or just buy something else. What would you recommend?
Again, thank you CX. I'll happily buy you some ribs and a cold beer next time I'm in Texas.