I'm tempted to remove all of the non useful posts in this thread but that wouldn't leave much now would it?
This thread is in the Tile Forum/Advice Board, otherwise known as the Shallow End. If you are going to provide advice here keep it to industry standard solid advice. We are here to help folks not confuse and muddy the issues. You want to do that take it over to the Pro Hangout or Mud box where you can argue all day.
Now Evert, if you haven't been scared off by some of these guys, come back and we'll try to get you back on track. If it were me, I would put down 3/4" ply followed by Ditra and then your granite tiles. I just did a similar counter except I used marble 12x12 tiles. Link is in my sig if you want to take a look.