Welcome, Sandi.
Are you sure the 3/4" T&G flooring is the only layer of flooring in that room(s)? It's not laid over some other subflooring?
If your existing subfloor is substantially un-flat, you would do best to remove it all and do your repairs at the joist level. Sistering new joists beside the existing with the new tops in plane would provide your best fix.
There's really nothing you can effectively do between your existing subfloor and the layer of plywood you must add for your tile installation. Any flattening would need to be done atop the plywood if you use a membrane-type tiling substrate, or atop the CBU if you go that direction. Neither will be as effective as bringing the joist tops into plane.
My opinio; worth price charged.