Karen....the LAST thing you want to do is to "waterproof" a slab before tiling. The sealer or waterproofer is a "bond breaker" when thinsetting tile.
Sprinkle some water on the slab. Does it absorb within a few minutes? If so, you're good to go for tiling.
Anti-fracture membrane is only needed if you have cracks in the floor. If they are only small horizontal cracks, then an anti-fracture membrane is in order....HOWEVER, if there is VERTICAL displacement......this is a floor you DON'T want to tile over.