Welcome, Tim.
Sorry you were overlooked there. When that happens, just make another post to bump your thread to the top of the queue for attention.
1. Depends upon what kind of plywood you're dealing with. How thick is the plywood?
Next you need to know what's under it. And you need to know what's under that for a joist structure.
After you determine all that is suitable, you must remove either the glue or the layer of plywood before you try to bond anything to it.
2,3,4. Let's first do #1.
I think the Warmwire can be installed directly to a properly prepared wood subfloor. Your SLC manufacturer will tell you the requirements for installing his product over that. You would install Ditra with unmodified thinset mortar over the SLC.
You can use thinset mortar to cover the heating system if the manufacturer approves that. I don't know if your SLC requires lath when used over the Warmwire. That'll be product specific.
You can install CBU under the Warmwire if you want. That's certainly not a substitute for installing an uncoupling membrane over the heating system, though, but the membrane is not mandatory.
Your floor does not need to be level unless you just want it level. Tile don't give a rat's patooti about level, it wants only flat.
My opinion; worth price charged.