Welcome, David.
A vapor barrier in the construction industry is any material with a permeance rating of 1.0 or less. The term being adopted more commonly by the industry is vapor retarder. I have a little problem with that because nearly everything will
retard the passage of vapor somewhat. I want something to stop nearly all of it and call that a barrier. But don't nobody pay me no never mind.
At any rate, a "vapor retarder" or vapor barrier has a permeance of less than one.
To actually act as a vapor barrier, though, this material must be installed without penetrations. That rarely happens. Therefore, the code required vapor barrier in some jurisdictions is usually not a vapor barrier at all. But they do stop a lot of the moisture vapor, primarily by stopping the movement of air.
Shower construction (non-steam shower) requires a moisture containment of some kind to be lasting and functional. The use of a moisture containment material, such as poly sheeting or roofing felt over the studs behind the wall board, does that quite well and properly directs the moisture back to the drain. It does not a vapor barrier make.
Absent the use of such a containment, you can waterproof the interior of the shower using a direct-bonded waterproofing membrane, either sheet or liquid-applied. Some, but not all, of these also constitute a vapor barrier or retarder.
In your situation, I can't speak to your local codes, requirements, or building customs for treatment of exterior walls, but you still must provide one of the two moisture containment methods above for a proper shower installation.
My opinion; worth price charged.