Welcome, Nef.
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I'm a little confused by your title v. your application. Your intent for the use of RedGard on the shower walls is for crack isolation, rather than for waterproofing?
Do you use a moisture barrier of some sort over the backing material on the shower walls prior to attaching your lath and mortar?
Your "soft ceramic" tiles would be a Glazed Wall Tile type?
As to the RedGard coming off the wall with the tile, rather than the tile separating from the RedGard, all I can say is that the failure must occur somewhere and it will be the point of least resistance. In your case, that is apparently the bond between the RedGard and your mortar bed.
The required bond for either surface and the RedGard is only a minimum of 50psi. While it may well exceed that by a significant amount in some applications, it's apparently stronger to the thinset mortar on the back of the tile than to the fat mud on the wall. I find no fault with that, so long as it meets the minimum bond strength.
Your mortar walls would generally be how old when the RedGard is applied?
Your RedGard would generally cure how long before you set your tile?
What bonding mortar are you generally using when you make these observations?